refactor(demo): replace Portainer with Dockhand

Replace Portainer container management service with Dockhand:
- Update docker-compose.yml.template with Dockhand service definition
- Replace portainer_data volume with dockhand_data
- Update PORTAINER_PORT to DOCKHAND_PORT in demo.env
- Update all script references (demo-stack.sh, demo-test.sh, validate-all.sh)
- Update integration test from Portainer to Dockhand
- Update documentation files (README.md, AGENTS.md, api-docs,
  service-guides, troubleshooting)

Dockhand provides modern Docker management UI with:
- Container lifecycle management
- Compose stack orchestration
- Git-based deployments
- Multi-environment support
- Terminal access and log streaming
- File browser capabilities

Maintains same port (4007) for consistency.

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demo/scripts/validate-all.sh

@@ -118,7 +118,7 @@ validate_port_availability() {
         "$HOMEPAGE_PORT"
         "$DOCKER_SOCKET_PROXY_PORT"
         "$PIHOLE_PORT"
-        "$PORTAINER_PORT"
+        "$DOCKHAND_PORT"
         "$INFLUXDB_PORT"
         "$GRAFANA_PORT"
         "$DRAWIO_PORT"