ggml : prevent builds with -ffinite-math-only (llama/7726)

This enforces a check that -fno-finite-math-only was set and that the operating
compiling mode is not in finite maths mode. This is because during rewriting of
silu and softmax for cpu #7154 there emerged an issue where the result that was
observed when >1 slot was nondeterministic as found by @JohannesGaessler.

@LostRuins narrowed the problem down to -ffinite-math-only which was theorised
to be due to SiLU, instead of flushing small values to 0, returns NaN or some
other garbage. @jart proposed a fix that @ggerganov then implemented in this fix

ref https://github.com/ggerganov/llama.cpp/pull/7154#issuecomment-2145661825

ggml.c

@@ -2272,6 +2272,11 @@ inline static float ggml_silu_f32(float x) {
     return x/(1.0f + expf(-x));
 }
 
+#if __FINITE_MATH_ONLY__
+#error "some routines in ggml.c require non-finite math arithmetics -- pass -fno-finite-math-only to the compiler to fix"
+#error "ref: https://github.com/ggerganov/llama.cpp/pull/7154#issuecomment-2143844461"
+#endif
+
 #if defined(__ARM_NEON) && defined(__aarch64__)
 
 // adapted from arm limited optimized routine