Re-introduce the queue wake fix that was reverted due to a regression,
but this time with the follow-up fixes that take care of the regression.
Signed-off-by: Felix Fietkau <nbd@nbd.name>
(cherry picked from commit 9a93b62f315ad4c9f021c414ed80ba337ab4a01e)
(cherry-picked from commit 8b804cae5e039142bc63896a75f15146eca3bebc)
(cherry-picked from commit 8b06e06832ebe757246582b65306ad2a2537741f)
